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There will be spurts here and there, but then, depression, anger, and jealousy. Men vary widely since we're not a hive mind so my advice to the OP is to take this stuff as any other dating experience, eyes wide open and without expectations other than have a good time in the moment. Most of the time it does stop being a good time at some point. Sometimes a bunch of moments string together and you end up holding each other in the twilight of life.
He needs to totally separate his previous life and feelings from your potential relationship. Now, the guy my ex W was dating and living with while we were separated, they're still living together some 8 years later so there's one success story for you, genders reversed of course.
Even still, they were in contact as they share custody of their three kids.
Apart from the ex complicating things, there is also the fact that you are the rebound and the fact that once he gets his confidence restored on the back of your support he will often want to move on to exploring his new found freedom.
Even if he adores you, a part of him will say he cannot just go off with the first woman he saw once he separated, he has to find out what else is out there. He's separated, so there is a good chance he may get back with his ex.
Depending on the nature of the divorce, some may feel as if they'll never remarry or find somebody that will love them again in their life time.
Those nagging doubts can really leave somebody in the dumps over a long period of time if the underlying psychological issues are not immediately addressed.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. Most have so many other things (emotionally/mentally) they need to deal with first. The very last thing on my mind was a relationship with any kind of substance.
When a newly divorced guy starts out strong and then all of a sudden stops. It's not gender-specific - happens all the time with both men and women. The trouble with people who are rebounding, is that they can't see their actions and feelings for what they are--they're too close to the situation to understand it clearly.
Well, that is because he wants to be with someone and then something reminds him of what a relationship brings. So this guy may have honestly thought he WAS ready to move on... After divorce, many people are desperate for comfort, for having that cozy couple-y feeling again and to not let the divorce side-track their life.
Consequently, many jump into relationships before they're truly ready, often without even realizing it.
Common sense says that this guy is NOT ready to date, not yet.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating